• Emotions
    Her Journey

    I can only ADVICE myself!

    Advice, It was Friday Summer evening, a week after my SEE Board.  I cloudly remember his face and words. He was there for a family gathering but complained about me to my mother. She attentively listened to him as his words guided my mother to restrict me. His gaze bore into me followed by a phrase “You should start being stricter with her, otherwise in no time she will slip right there. Be careful about your respectability.” Being honest with himself, he advised me not to roam late at night, not to make male friends, and to follow what my cousins were doing. His words reverberated across the room as…

  • I'm not a Wife Material.
    Self Help

    I don’t want to be a WIFE Material!

    The escalation of flirting and sexting is so high that the so-called intellectuals often end up saying “not Wifey material.” The casual encounters take a way of judging and unhinged thoughts making the perception of “not a Wife material.” This is also the product of a patriarchal society that points outs every shade of HER but not HIS. Wifey Material, is a phrase to describe the girls who are believed to be suitable for marriage. This term talks about having some aligned characteristics and behavior to perform to be a good wife. And I would define this term as becoming something convenient and beneficial to the rigid man of society.…

  • Green flags in relationship.
    Relationships

    What are the green flags in a relationship?

    Throughout all the context, the “Green Flags” means to begin, to reframe, to look positive, to communicate, and to hold each other, and so on. We have talked about Red-Flags in the last blog post. So today, we are here with Green Flags. Flags are the INDICATORS. The greens are for the positive attributes and the red ones are the ones that intuitively tell you to stop. The wrong signs that drain you. This is not a comprehensive list and only captures some of the ways to find. Let’s dig deep, We often jump to the things that we yearn for, as soon we are in a relationship, without thinking…

  • Her Journey

    What does period pain feel like?

    Wholeheartedly, this blog is self-expression. The talk that I make with my heart and mind during my bleeding days, the period pain. I’m not gonna write about the hormonal changes, and the changing phase causing the lining of the uterus to build up. To all intents and purposes, I’m here to share this segment of life that actually feels like “installment on a monthly basis.” I’m extremely enmesh that I’m using such a word, after all, I greeted my red-lining while account practice. Something like a red carpet, and actually it is, your panties get the red spot or just the heavy flow. Well, if you want to read some…

  • Scribble Pen

    The Lip Kiss we share.

    I text you something tempting and seducing. Though it’s midnight, that’s the exact time to let soul melt under the spilled light moon.I want you, Right now,under my quilt, Next to me,Around my arms, holding tightHeavy obscene breath, lyrical stare.Your lips on mine,And, mine on yours, a tease,a sensational riot. The lip kiss,Inhaling the desires, exploding with the yearning of a flaming heart.Hands running through hair,Dancing with the stir around the waist.a fly on the rhythm of erotic guitardigging to heavenly pleasure,the kind of sumptuous collaboration, With the tons of honeyed mixes. Unrevealed Thoughts Holding to meet under the quilt, when the moon rises again. Yours on mine and mine…

  • Dating Advice
    Relationships

    Honest Dating Advice.

    The real-life is not the rom-com movie you see where everything ends on a good note with flashing happiness after honest dating advice. Here, everything comes with the cost either monetary or on a personal level. The season of the revival of leaves fosters the mingling phase with each swipe and scroll. Funny, but I think the sun and moon and all those twinkling stars are extremely tired by witnessing all those love scenes and love sheets. Apart, the longing and blazing fire is the reason to fall and celebrate the association of the cute melting phase. And the phase of mingling is exciting and full of life with hands…

  • The dilemma of Good Girl.
    Life Style

    The Dilemma of a Good Girl.

    That’s not what Good Girls do, my dear. This is the articulate set phrase in our conversation, that makes you pause for seconds to realize and go through. But actually, the most important thing is, how the good girls behave?-because every time they restrict the talks, assisting the societal belief with set expectations. Therefore, Let me decode the Good Girl for you, A Trip to down, I grew up in a confused state of my mind. The rush to be the “Good Girl” was always there. It was following me from the morning sun to the late-night sleeping position. “This is not the good way, do it like this. Otherwise,…

  • Emotional intimacy
    Relationships

    Intimacy: Easy way to Build An Emotional Intimacy.

    Intimacy, the state of being intimate. A noun that describes an interpersonal relationship, an amorously familiar act. The word is all around with the meaning of “sexual relationship.” But in actuality, it may also be a non-sexual relationship. Considering that, today we will talk about the signs of Emotional Intimacy. Emotional Intimacy. Self Care, The ultimate guide. There’s the difference between intimacy that touches your neckline and the one that flames to burn your soul with kindness. Meanwhile, Intimacy isn’t just sex or romancing late at night. It’s a passion for deep connection through conversation under spilled light moon holding each other emotionally. Because there’s nothing more important in life…

  • Healthy boundaries.
    Personal Development

    How to set healthy boundaries?

    Boundaries: line that marks the limit. And, talking about healthy boundaries, it’s new SELF-CARE practices. It comes from a length of being rigid to lose which establishes one’s identity to bloom in their comfort. Presently, setting boundaries is essential if we want to shelter our emotional and mental health. But it doesn’t come naturally to us. It’s harder to create and maintain. As straightly they define YOU by marking a line in the mass. Healthy Boundaries. Female masturbation is no longer taboo. The healthy boundaries define individuality specifying a line where I end and someone else begins leading me to the valiant sense of ownership. It allows us to feel…

  • Friend zone.
    Relationships

    The friend zone is a toxic mindset.

    The Friend Zone, when two people are friends where the one side has need while the other just enjoy the presence. Sometimes this naturally leads to ache, disappointment, or heartbreak resulting in the mismatch of opinions and feeling orientations. There’s some relation that’s made liberally with some relevant and irrelevant talks yet some are hard to build. And, the end of every relation ache. Though, depends upon how tender your relationship was? A while back, actually, it feels like yesterday, one of my friends expressed his feelings for me. I was taken aback, dazed so shocked, and my first response was, “but we are really good friends.” After a few…