The Art of Living Single.
There was a time when being single is used to mean that nobody wants you or might be you have any wrong sides. But with the time, now it means you are pretty sexy, bold, and taking a string of your life in your hand. Living Single.
We live in a portrayed world where coupling up is often seen as the right thing to do. The day-to-day celebrations associated with the relationship, pre-post wedding, romantic couple parties, and all that phase of mingling might be exciting and full of life – for single it can be smile cracking.
Well if you talk about society, adulthood has been synonymous with marriage. As if the people with no partner can’t be adults.
People say, “the good life is defined after marriage and parenthood.” UnrevealedThoughts
However, there is an emergence of singlehood. As a new lifestyle that is mostly visualized as a response to dissatisfaction with traditional marriage, and the belief of “life begins after marriage.” It represents a significant change in traditional and cultural expectations underlying many of our so-called beliefs.
Nevertheless, there is so much value in being single that people often overlook instead of embracing, accepting, and applauding.
People are fond of showcasing their so-called feeling of being single with a lot of posts asking for partners on social media. They forget single is the key to unlocking exciting phases of life where you don’t have any restrictions.
It’s true if you are not in a relationship, you are missing the late-night talks, flirtatious text turning to be a great scene. And probably a couple of holidays package offers. But being single can be a wild ride, where you can learn, grow, explore, interact with new people. And understanding the meaning behind that enamored smile.
So if you are flying SOLO, don’t worry. Living single !! Love-Like-Lust.
There are plenty of ways to have fun with your soul presence and you won’t regret it!!
Your relationship status doesn’t define who you are. Because deep down we all are struggling with our unaddressed emotions, existence-validation, and moreover, for being just YOU !!
Being single doesn’t mean lonely rather you can say you are preparing yourself for the next relationship to come up with some more exciting and stirring sides.
Relationships can be cool when the person is right for you. But not all relationship commitment gets a happy ending, some have to die in the middle of the way.
Therefore, it’s totally a waste to change yourself. Thinking for life-long commitment It’s way better not to be in a relationship than to be in a bad and toxic one. His struggle for feelings.
Whether you’ve previously been in a relationship and are now single, or have been single from the very beginning. Singlehood is always been thrilling.
And the exhilarating phase of life where you have the right to have space and can step ahead as per your will.
At some point in the journey, your friends will find their mate. And you will be compelled to think you are only the single person on this earth. Well, relax, because your friend in the relationship also might be feeling sad for them and happy for you.
Therefore, it’s just a matter of “how you choose to live.” Doesn’t matter what you see around, the thing matter is how you perceive things.
Therefore, rather than rushing for a relationship, it would be better to understand the ‘WH’ questions considering your life. And educate, understand, explore, and interact more before vowing the next commitment. (Profile.)
And don’t forget, the art of living is single !!
Keep loving, living, and sharing !! Sensitive is actually good.
2 Comments
Molly @ Transatlantic Notes
I definitely think spending time being single and letting ourselves figure out who we are and what we want — especially out of a relationship — is really good advice. There is no point rushing something as important as this — thanks for sharing!
Sidhi
Aww. Glad you said such meaningful words. Thank you for your beautiful words. Please, keep on visiting.