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I can only ADVICE myself!
Advice, It was Friday Summer evening, a week after my SEE Board. I cloudly remember his face and words. He was there for a family gathering but complained about me to my mother. She attentively listened to him as his words guided my mother to restrict me. His gaze bore into me followed by a phrase “You should start being stricter with her, otherwise in no time she will slip right there. Be careful about your respectability.” Being honest with himself, he advised me not to roam late at night, not to make male friends, and to follow what my cousins were doing. His words reverberated across the room as…
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The Modern Loneliness.
I was reading a book and contemplating some unresolved issues while seated in a lively cafe a half mile outside of the major city. Perhaps the vibrant atmosphere was created to prevent people from feeling lonely, as I did when I first entered. (Loneliness) I made an effort to pay attention to the words on the page, but I couldn’t follow them. The search for my own questions’ answers frequently keeps me up at night and the same continued even there. To escape this, and enjoy the vibrancy and the smell of fresh lily, I ordered my regular drink. Getting back to the book, I turned to the next page,…
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I don’t want to be a WIFE Material!
The escalation of flirting and sexting is so high that the so-called intellectuals often end up saying “not Wifey material.” The casual encounters take a way of judging and unhinged thoughts making the perception of “not a Wife material.” This is also the product of a patriarchal society that points outs every shade of HER but not HIS. Wifey Material, is a phrase to describe the girls who are believed to be suitable for marriage. This term talks about having some aligned characteristics and behavior to perform to be a good wife. And I would define this term as becoming something convenient and beneficial to the rigid man of society.…
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How to figure out Splitting Bills?
With people, there are different perceptions when it comes to splitting the bills. I have seen people dependent upon their partner while some touched with the chapter of equality trying to bring change. Whether, it’s an engaged relationship, friendship, or just the normal hangout, there remains the term partnership. And, as you’re involved in that relationship of partnership, both parties need to be involved in the finance. I know, this seems quite perplexing for the instant moment as we are not normalized by this culture. But honestly, splitting bills is drama-free. Unrevealed Thoughts There’s a particular topic that seems to get arise whenever we are on a date or just…
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Have you got frenemies?
“It’s better to choose ENEMY than FRENEMY” I think most of us have at least one or more. It’s like every one of us have frenemies in our life. UnrevealedThoughts Before digging and getting deeper into the content, Have you ever realized exactly when you can define anything without typing on the search box? It’s the time when you have strong experience in something relevant probably, you don’t need a Google search box, and frenemy is similar to that. Unfortunately, we were far apart from realizing it, though we all have at least frenemies in our life. Well, if it comes to the definition of this portmanteau…
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How to find self-fulfillment?
It took me 18 long years to realize “self-fulfillment is quite important than perfection” in its true sense. Well, I’m quite more than that 18. But you need to find a way of self-fulfillment !! “The purpose of your life is to be happy. And it is possible only if you are satisfiedDo what makes your(heart)💗 exuberant and satisfied.” “Happiness results when you are satisfied and you get satisfied when you stop judging and complaining” From very early, I mean school time we have been taught satisfaction matters. Because no one is perfect in this world,…
